Parenting 101 – ‘Inside Vs. Out’
I don’t know if it’s a generational thing or if I’m simply failing as a parent. Today’s weather calls for sunny skies with temperatures in the lower 80s. Where were my children this morning? They were in the house watching television. I went so far as to pull the cord from the back of the television and hide it, adamantly instructing them to go outside. “But – there’s nothing to do outside!” What??
Here’s where I think the generational thing comes in (I actually had this ‘back in my day’ conversation with my 10 year old). When I was a kid I was outside ALL day long. I would disappear into the woods and build tree forts. I would spend time riding my bike around the neighborhood, even pretending I was John Baker from CHiPs. Now I will say that the neighborhood I grew up in had a lot of kids to play with whereas my children are fairly isolated out in the country and times have certainly changed. My parents knew I was out in the woods but didn’t really pay much attention. It’s a bit more complicated and dangerous these days.
Still, to get my kids to go outside for more than 10 minutes at a time is a chore. Where’s the imagination? Where’s the love of nature? Is it just my kids? Probably.
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